Hinog na ang prutas…matutuyo na ang lawa
Jul 15th, 2009 by ella
From the shoutbox;
14 Jul 09, 21:15
loving: hi there! bride to be ka na pala… na miss ko yata ang post mo regarding proposal?
From the comment box:
2009/07/15 at 2:33 AM
Katrina: congratulations ellabeybe! hindi na bata ang favorite kong blogger, mag-aasawa na at sya na gagawa ng bata!
Mang-iintriga lang po, no na balita ke merkano? alam na ba nya na ikakasal ka na?
Yup, bitin nga sa info. Loving, eto na ‘yung nawawalang post. Kat, sasagutin natin ang intriga hehe.
Ang groom-to-be ni Ellababe ay tatawagin nating “pixel heart”. Stalker sana pero medyo masagwa ang dating.
Ayoko munang umibig
Remember, I told you before, feeling ko nawala na ang kilig sa lablayp ko. Ikaw ba naman eh, sunod-sunod na pagkabigo at balde-baldeng luha ang ubusin mo. Hindi ako si Totoy bato noh, kaya ayun, ingat na ang puso ko sa mga bwisit na pangako.
Ewan ko ba kung bakit sa larangan ng pag-ibig, kapag umasa ka at nabigo, tagos-kaluluwa ang sakit. Nope, it’s not about natapakang pride, masakit talaga siya. At matagal bago siya mawala.
Isa pang kasabihan na applicable sa pag-ibig - “What doesn’t kill you will make you stronger”. Ilang beses na bang nawindang ang puso ng ate Ella ‘nyo dahil sa deputang pag-ibig na ‘yan?
Oh yeah? Why are you getting married now?
I have decided to marry my groom-to-be with a new and improved heart (parang Tide). Ika nga ni Katrina, hindi na ako bata. Nag-mature na ang pananaw ko sa “love and relationship” (I hope). As in I’m not looking through rainbow colored glasses anymore. At kasama ng bahaghari ang naglahong kilig.
No, he’s not the rebound guy. ‘Yun bang “siya na lang kasi bwisit ‘yung iba”? Nandoon ang pag-ibig, wala na nga lang ang mga pantasya. Let’s just say, with him, it took one step, one day at a time…until I was ready to love again. Na dilat ang mga mata.
Why him?
He knew my heart was still in the “mending” stage kahit wala akong kinukwento sa kanya. (TIP ito, gurlfriends: ‘wag magku-kwento ng mga nakaraang pag-ibig sa bagong bf ‘nyo. No guy wants to hear about how great the competition is).
Nandoon lang siya palagi sa tabi ko, tahimik, not demanding anything. Always anticipating my every need. He bought a brand new car just because ang hilig kong maglakwatsa pero tamad magmaneho. He drives me anywhere, anytime, kahit hanggang sa dulo siguro ng Pilipinas. Na walang reklamo.
Hindi ko nahahalata, kakaiba ang style ng lalaking ‘to. This guy gave me time to heal and grow up at the same time. Pero nandoon siya sa tabi ko, of course. Nasanay ako. Where I was independent, he created a need. .
What’s even better, wala akong naririnig na promises or cheesy “I will always love you forever I can’t live without you” yakkity yak yak. He was just there. All I had to do was reach out and he’ll be there. Parang magic. Parang kanta.
At naikwento ko na rin, noon pa niya ako mahal. He showed me what a woman who is truly loved should feel.
Hinog na ang prutas
And here’s another reason why it’s him. Pusong mamon talaga ang byuti ko sa mga probinsiyano. Like he’s more barriotic than soulmate, my first probinsiyano. One weekend, a couple of months ago…
Pixel heart: Ella, gusto mong mag-long drive?
Ako: Depende. Saan ba?
PH: Sa Tarlac, mga 4-5 hours.
Ako: Pucha, probinsiya ‘nyo ‘yun ah. Ang layo naman. Ano ba meron doon?
PH: Ang mga magulang ko.
Ako: Bakit anong nangyari?
PH: Wala, wala namang nangyari. Ipakikilala kita sa Mamang at Papang. Gusto nilang makilala ang babaeng may pitak sa puso ko.
Ako: Pitak?? Pitak sa puso?? WTF are you talking about?
PH: (Parang napahiya) Eh…kasi…Wala lang…
Ako: Ano nga ‘yung pitak sa pusooooo???
PH: Eh kasi, di ba, kapag hinog na ang prutas, dapat nang pitasin?
Ako: Oy, naiinis na ako ha. Anong kinalaman ng prutas sa mga pitak ng puso? Anooo?
PH: (Lalong nataranta) Sabi kasi ni Mamang, baka raw matuyuan na ang lawa kung hindi pa tayo magpapakasal.
Ako: Laway? Matutuyo ang laway?? Waaah! WTF is going on here??
Hehe what was actually going on that time was…tadaa…he was trying to propose nyahaha!
Fotah, ang lalim ng Tagalog. Lost in translation na naman ang ate Ella ‘nyo.
Babaeng may pitak sa puso - gurl na labs niya
Hinog na ang prutas - ready to settle down
Matutuyo na ang lawa - (this is the weirdest of all) Baka hindi na ako magkaanak kasi matanda na raw ako, according to the oldies. Taragis, sa probinsiya pala, 26 years old eh lola na mwahaha! Ilang taon ba dapat magkaanak, 14?
And that, my friends, was the very romantic proposal ng aking groom-to-be. Sabi ko nga, hindi siya post worthy LOLz
P.S. to Katrina
Kat, hindi alam ni Merkano. I felt I didn’t need to tell him anything. We really have to move on na. He made a choice before. I’m making mine now. Anyway, he will always remain a beautiful part of my past (Naks, ang drama ni Ella hehe)





Puto-kutsinta ni Bae Osiang




naks naman ate ella!
hang-cute ng proposal niya
gusto sana kita batiin kahapon e. kaso hindi mo nabanggit kung sino si lucky guy.
ang totoo medyo matagal ko na rin po gusto itanong kung ano na nanyari in that chapter with merkano.
i don’t know if i missed some of your posts pero parang wala ka na po nakwento about him since november. nahiya naman po ako magtanong kasi baka bawal mag-mention ng name hehe. (patawad po sa pang-iintriga…)
pero anyway, congratz! btw, ang ganda ng post na ‘to..promis.
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Time sure passes by…
And would you believe that the princess that was once a slave to her past is now marrying a prince. I cannot wait to read the story of how one of my most favorite author, friend and master will walk down in that isle to say “I do”
I great story to tell…A wonderful life that will begin….and another adventure to fulfill. Ate congratulations and my best wishes to you, I do apologize if I have not been in touch for weeks, busy schedule and lots of work as of now we are taking our prelim exams. Buti ka pa ate I envy you, you have someone. Me? I cant court the one I love in respect to my friend who’s courting her.
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in love din ako ate ella sa isang probinsyano..
pero wala pa nman -pitak-
pitaka palang,,hehe! joke!
im hapee for u, mwuah!
natatawa talaga ko sa mga kwento mo..
sabi ng ofis mates ko, babaw ko daw,
e cute nman talaga blog mu ah..
hindi corny =)
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Hangkyut ng proposal. At hangkyut din ng mga idyoma na ginamit ni PH. Hahaha, kahit ako hindi na-gets yung mga pinagsasasabi nya. Naturingan pa naman akong nabuhay RAW noong Dekada 50s sa lalim ng Tagalog. Hahaha.

Congrats, ‘te Ella.
// Bakit nga pala “pixel heart”?
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Ella,
Congratulations! Nag-mature ka na nga. I am so proud of you. YOu were hurt, cried..but you managed to get up and learn. You are lucky to find somebody who loves you the way he loves you. I hope both of you will nurture that love . I am really happy for you. I really do. Sabi mo hindi romantic ang kwento..well, I think romance is subjective…sometimes, over rated. You will be surprised that in your marriage life, marami niyan. It’s just up to you and him to make the love and romance grow and last forever.
P.S. I thought I made a comment on your previous post, but I did it last night and was really sleepy..hindi ko yata na hit ang submit.
What i am trying to say is ..i visit your blog everyday! luv ya!
And by the way.. I think it is romantic the way you met and the way he proposed. Something that when you’ll look back and tell your kids years from now, they’ll find it cute and kilig
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Congrats Ms. Ella….kakatuwa nman, biruin mo kailan lang isa kang luhaan aba next year ikakasal kana…….”matutuyo na ang lawa” - nawindang ako dito hahaha
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congrats and goodluck sa plano nyong pagpapakasal. nakakarelate ako kasi ganyan tingin ko ganyan din ang tingin nya sakin, “walang cheesy promises and yakkity yak yak, pero i’m just always here”. hahaha. parang ganon.
saka 29 na siya, pero never pang nagpapakita ng signs ng pagkatuyo. hahaha! =D
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hehehehe!ang cute nmn ng proposal..ang lalim ng tagalog…baka matuyo na ang lawa ate ella..congrats sa inyong dalwa..
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huh?!!! 2 days lang akong di nakasilip dito sa blog mo, may kasalan na????! Anyway, I am so pleased and happy for you Ella. I wish you both the best and exciting marriage…… just like your thoughts in your blogs…
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I am SSSSSOOOOOOO TOTALY HHAAAAPPPPPYYYYY fo you Ate…
You Deserve to be happy..
you deserve to be loved..
you deserve to be cared of..
and you deserved the best of life..
Im sure you’ll be a very good housewife and momee someday..
SWERTE ANG GUY NA MAPAPANGASAWA MO…
Bastah one things for sure…he will love you ng sobrah and xempre you din in return.
)
(parang pari na ko magsalitah
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Congratulations Ganda!
Im happy for you.. mwah!
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after a long time. ngayon lang ulit ako mag co comment. andami kasi nangyari sa buhay ko lately katulad sa yo. but mind you i always read your blog. wala nga lang comment.
anyway, i’m so happy for you my dear ganda. ikakasal ka na. yehey!!! sana wala nang atrasan to ha.
about your books pala. pinuntahan ko halos lahat nang national bookstore sa cebu. bakit wala?
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akala ko lang kasi inaayos nyo pa kung ano mang gusot kasi di ba me intervention na ng MIL & FIL e tuluyan na palang “nahilaw”.
pero sa case nyo ni pixel heart ngayon, i am sure sya na si right guy for you. hindi pilit, hindi nya ipinilit ang sarili nya sa iyo, nanjan lang, nakikiramdam, naghihintay at ayan na nga, nahinog tuloy ng pagkatamis-tamis! aba’y apurahin na nga at baka magmala-prunes na matris! me aabangan na naman ako….apo ko kay ellabeybe!
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Congratulations Ella, hope after your wedding, mag update ka pa rin ng blog.
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Swerte mo sa mapapang-asawa mo.
Gusto ko din yung mga taong hindi korni. Yung mga hindi paulit ulit sa pagsabi ng “I love you” at kung anu anong promise. Hindi naman na kasi kelangan sabihin yun e. Iparamdam lang dapat.
*kunyari nagka bf na* haha.
Napadaan lang. ^^
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I like how you call him “pixel heart”. Hang Cute! I wish you all the best Ellababe! I’m sure wherever merkano is, he’s happy for you.
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Waaahhh! Ikakasal ka na! Congrats Ellababes. Ambilis mag-damoves ah!
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I love the style!!!pinoy na pinoy…kakakilig…….It’s good to see that you are now really Happy Miss E!
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buti ka pa na-inlove sa pinoy. iba talaga magmahal ang pinoy di ka iiwanan saka magkakatuwang pa kayo. d ka kikibo alam na niya ang problema kasi pareho kayo ng kultura. lalo na sa promdi masyadong deep pag nagmahal. putragis kc istong puso ko sa briton lang nayayanig.
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hello po.. I was looking some information I will need for our thesis proposal and it happen that i found this blog..
hehehe!!! i really like reading your stories even though this is my first time.. So very cute and sweet..
i’m happy for you.. You finally found your love!! congrats poh..
i wish that someday I will find someone like you find yours..
godblesss… Merry xmas and happy new year..
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Iba ang alam ko sa Tuyo na ang lawa, and i know U know what i mean….. hehehhe
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pamatay tlga mga blogs mo hahahahaa…
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